It is everyone’s responsibility to stop sexual violence, resources for survivors are available
Sexual assault occurs whenever any type of sexual contact or behavior is initiated without consent. This can include an unwanted kiss, uninvited nudity and rape.
April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month and the University of Idaho is doing its part to address the issue. Students need to do their part too, whether it’s recognizing the signs or actively campaigning against these crimes.
Sexual assault and sexual harassment are human issues. Any person, regardless of gender, sex, age or professional position, can be a victim or a perpetrator. This means not a single person on Earth is exempt from stopping sexual violence.
Much of the focus is put on victims, but even more important are the perpetrators. People who commit sexual assault have friends, family members, roommates and coworkers. These surrounding people are absolutely responsible in stopping sexual violence.
The fact is, most perpetrators are men and it is up to a man’s friends to help prevent him from potentially ruining a life. At parties or on double dates, it is critical that men approach men if they are concerned a sexual assault might occur.
It’s not cock-blocking. It’s life-saving.
For the survivors of sexual assault, the Palouse has resources to help with the recovery process. Close to home here at UI, the Women’s Center, the Counseling and Testing Center, the Vandal Health Office and the Violence Prevention Program have members whose job it is to help people in such situations. Alternatives to Violence on the Palouse employs people specifically to help survivors.
Anyone at UI should be happy to help a survivor, but keep in mind that many faculty are obligated to tell their superiors if they have reason to believe an assault has occurred or will occur. Choose carefully who hears the story, but please tell somebody so help can be offered.
It is up to everyone to stop sexual assault. Recognize the warning signs and take the necessary steps to prevent a crime, whether that’s offering your friend some food or a ride home. Help them. Help all of us.
— JO