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Fear not: Sing, dance, and make merry

By Katy Cannon
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Last week passed so quickly I almost forgot to pause and figure out why. Did it go quickly for all of you, too? Did you wonder if it was the excitement of Thanksgiving, or the tingle in the air, or the approaching end of the semester? Maybe you're in love. Whatever the reason, the week went by in record time.


Just as most of us agonize over the rough times in life, so also should we rejoice in the good times.


Unfortunately, rejoicing is often curtailed by lack of self-assurance. It pains me a little to think of all the wasted fun due to embarrassment.


I can't remember very many times, if ever, I've seen people on the sidewalks or in the halls singing or dancing. Even in the privacy of a car, most will halt their expression of joyful lip-synching when they come to a stoplight, grinning sheepishly at the driver next to them. From where does this fear of singing and dancing come?


I once read a little rhyme that went like this:


"I had the greatest gift there can be, a mother who did sing to me." Whether or not Mother sang to us, we all had, at one time, the desire and courage to sing. It doesn't take much to get a child to sing, in fact, it's often hard to get one to stop. Little children love music and love making it.


Why do you suppose Disney movies are all musicals? Sometime, though, around the age of 6 or 7, kids lose that unabashed vigor of song.


Music remains important, but some evil thing tells us we are not allowed to make it ourselves. With this loss also coincides the loss of that crazy little dance we all used to do.


Music is, without at doubt, one of the most important creations of humankind. Few would disagree with this, but too few are a part of the magic. Perhaps there are certain times in life when music is more important. Perhaps early childhood is one of these times, in addition to adolescence. I'd bet nearly all of you were pretty into one kind of music or another throughout junior high and high school.


Many of us near-adults have managed to acknowledge the importance of being a part of the music, but most haven't. They are afraid to sing, thinking their voices untuned, and they are afraid to dance, thinking their bodies ungraceful. But what are tune and grace to obstruct the expression of joy.


It is true that music expresses all the emotions a human can know, but ultimately, all music is an expression of joy. Take, for example, a blues ballad. A man may sit down and pour out his guts into a song of heartbreak and longing, but isn't there an exquisite pleasure in the mourning? The happiness lies in the connection and sympathy for another human and in the precise delight of combined rhythms, melodies and harmonies.


Something inside each of us recognizes with acuteness the rightness and goodness of music. It is a thing we all need. So I say, abandon your fears.


So what if something thinks you're silly for waltzing across campus or conducting wildly to the song in your head.


When you are sad, be sad, and when you are happy, be happy. For the rest of the semester give yourself the chance to join a friend in song or dance. I guarantee a little music will brighten your day.

 

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